[A librarian friend of mine on Twitter is about to loan The Thorn Birds out to some lucky soul today. I told DeAnna how much I have loved that book, and doing so has put me in the mood to re-post what I wrote about the novel back on Feb. 1, 2015. Here it is, below.]
Colleen McCullough, author of The Thorn Birds, died last week at the age of 77. The story of the furor over the way her obituary was written–drawing attention to the completely-unimportant matter of her weight–may mar the memory of her that some will carry, but it does not mar my memory of her. She deserves to be remembered for her work, and she will be. Others will be able to judge all of her novels. I have read and can comment on only one of them, but what a one it was.
Everyone who read her romantic saga The Thorn Birds in the late 1970s and early 80s has favorite passages from that sprawling epic of the Cleary family in Australia in the early 20th century: the death of Frank, killed by a wild boar in a field; the jilted love of wealthy Mary Carson for Father Ralph de Briccassart, and the petty, terrible vengeance she takes upon him; the illicit yet idyllic love of Father Ralph and Meggie Cleary years after the deceased Carson’s will has nearly set their lives in stone. Each of these passages still resonates for all of us, but the section I remember and value the most is the final one, McCullough’s evocation of the love between Meggie’s daughter, Justine, and the German electronics magnate, Rainer Moerling Hartheim.
Hartheim, you may recall, survives World War II, and is determined to use his Catholic faith and his head for business to shape a new and better Germany out of the appalling wreck of the Third Reich. He’s a young man when he meets Father Ralph in Rome, and he’s a mere 31 when he first sets eyes on the 21 year-old aspiring actress Justine O’Neill.
The difference in their ages is important, but the difference in life experience which that age difference represents is even more important. The Thorn Birds was published at the height of the feminist revolution of the 1970s. Feminists wanted to embrace the rebellious Meggie Cleary and her decades-long love affair with her priest, and they did. They had a much more difficult time, though, accepting the relationship between Justine and Ranier, and the “patriarchal” way, in their eyes, he tries to guide Justine’s life.
I thought then, and I think now, that the feminists could not have been more wrong about McCullough, Justine, or Rainer Hartheim. At no point does Hartheim ever wish to dominate Justine’s life. Her feistiness, which he sees at first meeting her during afternoon tea with her brother Dane and the Pope in Rome, is the very thing he loves the most about her. That feistiness is a product of the spirit of her mother that the feminists admire, and of her father, the rancher Luke O’Neill. If Hartheim guides her, it is because she needs the guidance. She’s fiercely intelligent, but blind to the lives of those around her, and to her own feelings. Hartheim guesses early on what the deepest secret of the Cleary family is, but he keeps it to himself. He marvels that Justine has not guessed it herself, but he marvels even more that she doesn’t hate men because of it.
What Justine does do, however, is keep Rainer at the farthest emotional distance possible. She clearly loves him, as we know from the way she walks with him, cuddling close to him as if he were some kind of great German teddy bear, and as we know from her constant references to him in letters back home to her mother. He’s always on her mind, yet she is determined to keep him solely as a friend, without any physical significance to her at all. The thought of committing to him, physically and emotionally, terrifies her, even after (and especially after) he sees his best opportunity during a break in Dane’s ordination in Rome and plants a kiss on her that reveals to her how deeply he loves her.
Not even after the two of them make love does it enter Justine’s mind that Rainer might have a place for her in his life, a place fuller and perhaps richer than the place she has for him in hers. She runs away; and she retreats still further after the untimely, tragic death of her brother.
Yet, Rainer waits for her. He does not wish to force any kind of a life upon her. He could, because Father Ralph has placed the O’Neill family fortune in his hands, but he chooses not to. He knows, rather, that she can carry on with the life she has. Indeed, he goes to see her live that life, watching as she pours out the emotions of an actor on the stage as a Shakespearean heroine, all without ever coming in contact with her own feelings. Still, he waits. And she remains unsatisfied and unfulfilled, willing at last to chuck her career away, and come home.
Those who believe that Rainer is entirely too self-sufficient and emotionally invulnerable have not read The Thorn Birds carefully enough. He takes a great risk in traveling to Drogheda to meet with Justine’s mother, but he must ask for her help. They meet as near-equals, but the ground upon which they spar is not as level as it looks. His secret power over the O’Neill finances is of no help. Nor is Mrs. O’Neill a woman inclined to solve other people’s problems. Meggie fought for her man over thirty years before and won; that was the only battle that ever mattered to her. Rainer is fighting for his woman right now; he must make Meggie see that she has a stake in that contest, the outcome of which is anything but clear.
Does he worry? Not about another man. He knows Justine loves him and only him. But about Drogheda, and the life that Justine could resume there? “A formidable opponent,” Ranier says. Yes, he worries. He worries even more after his farewell dinner with her. He lets her go completely, with a warm smile, and returns to his home to sit alone by the fire, defeated after years of struggle, and miserably unhappy.
That The Thorn Birds ends as it does is pure romance in the finest tradition possible, but the book’s value goes far beyond its simple worth as a companion piece to Gone With The Wind. When Meggie’s letter to Justine arrives, stops her in her tracks from returning to Drogheda, and opens her eyes to the love that Ranier has always had for her, the novel becomes an extraordinary testament to the virtue of patience. Rainer says as much, when he kneels on the rug, and joins Justine, who has come to him in contrition. “You never stopped loving me, Rain,” she says. “No, Herschen, never,” he replies. “I knew you loved me, and I could wait. I’ve always believed the patient man must win in the end.”
He waits until Justine sees for herself the kind of love he bears for her, and the kind of love she feels for him. If his enormous patience strikes us as an ideal that we ourselves cannot reach, it is balanced by his other, quite human qualities: his determination, his warmth and charm, his passion, and his vulnerability.
McCullough was very aware that The Thorn Birds rattled a few cages after it was published. The Catholic Church was not entirely happy with its depiction of erring priests, and feminism was not entirely happy with its depiction of the relations between men and women. Yet, the book remains tremendously popular among all groups even today for its unflinching look at how women and men all too frequently behave when they are in love. The book also shows as clearly as a novel can the limitations of the institutions (like the Church) and the social movements (like feminism) under which we live. Institutions like the Church and movements like feminism begin as vehicles for offering men and women choice in their lives, but a curious thing happens to such large social entities if they survive long enough: their ossified principles of thought and behavior begin to restrict choice even more than they open it up, because they cannot adapt easily to the unstoppable forces of social change. McCullough knew this, and so do thousands of her readers, all of whom are aware that, along with their considerable strengths, feminism and the Catholic Church stand as great but fallible bodies in our social lives. We succeed, we learn to love and live, as much in spite of their instruction as we do because of it. Yet, there is great respect in the novel for the power of faith. Neither Ranier nor Justine–representatives of a younger, better generation than that of their parents–would have survived without it.
The Thorn Birds is one of the best novels of the last fifty years about the necessity of making choices in our lives, and living with the consequences of the choices we make. It is one of the few books whose central theme involves the Christian religion (Kristen Lavrandatter is another), but it succeeds as a work of art by going beyond a rote depiction of rituals and the values of the Church. It sees and accepts more clearly than many contemporary books do the deep need humans have for each other, a need that cannot be fully satisfied by ritual, sacrament, or unthinking belief. It offers us the immensely valuable lesson that our lives, always brief and fragile things, are nevertheless not to be measured by a single day, or the action of a single moment. Rather, our lives are to be measured as the whole experience they actually are, against the forces in us and outside of us that constantly pull us away from, or draw us toward, the things we truly want.